Don’t be afraid of falling
I know, scary thought. You’ve been hurt before, the guy/girl dropped you on your ass and you were left to pick up the pieces while crying to yourself and listening to Taylor Swift. Everyone has been there before, but nothing will irritate a person more is if you put your huge wall up after and let no one break that shit down. This is just more of a reason to put yourself out there, you’re broken hearted yeah, but why not let someone make you feel good about yourself? Ultimately you can’t be in a good relationship unless you’re happy with yourself and after being broken like that why not get a little help from someone else? Let someone show you they aren’t all the same, don’t just assume everyone is out to hurt you.
Just don’t be afraid to fall in love again because you’re just cheating yourself out of feeling happy and in love.
Besides everyone knows the first one is the worst, after that its easy because you already know you can survive.
Ask me questions
On dating, relationships, flirting, advice, boys, girls, or anything else. I’ll be sure to give the best answer I can.
Don’t be afraid of being someone’s rebound. You never know how wonderful things might work out to be.
“Oh hey look at her rack.”
Never say that around someone you like. This is for girls too, never compliment someone else around someone you are interested in.
If you aren’t into someone, don’t hook up with them.
If someone tells you they aren’t into you, don’t hook up with them.
You’re just opening up a can of hurt that doesn’t need to be tampered with.
Kiss them even when they’re sick.
Take time to hold hand, do cute coupley activities, cherish the time you have with them, realize sometimes even the most perfect relationships don’t work out and at least you have them now.
Why you’re “forever alone”
Girls are notorious for this, complaining about being alone and single and lonely and how no one talks to you, yet not putting yourself out there. Love is just like life, if you sit around all day saying how no one is interested in you yet when the opportunity comes along and you pass it up; Yeah you will be forever alone. You have to take risks, do something new, go out and have fun. No body is going to randomly just show up at your house sit down next to you on your couch and try getting to know you. You can’t sit around waiting for your Prince Charming, life doesn’t work that way, you have to be Cinderella and go out of your bubble and you might just be lucky enough to catch someone’s attention.
Respect yourself, and others will respect you too.
This world isn’t full of good people, you will run across the people that will use you, make you believe you’re their special someone and then drop you like you’re the hot potato. How to deal with this? DON’T LET THEM. So many people now a days don’t respect themselves, they fall for the first person to tell them they’re cute, beautiful, that they’re not like anyone else they’ve ever met. More than likely that person is a stereotypical user. Don’t let them, make them take you out, make them work for you. You are a prize so treat yourself that way! And if they do end up using you, do not for the love of whatever you believe in let them or anyone else do it again. It’s like a vulnerability, how many time have you seen the same person get used by multiple people? A SHIT TON. Why? BECAUSE THEY LET THEM. Users can sense your weakness, and they will use it against you at any cost. While you’re wasting your time on all the wrong people who don’t respect you because you aren’t respecting yourself, someone who treats themselves as if they are worth it are scooping up the good people who don’t even look at the people who let others use them because most likely you have a negative association with a whore, a skank, or a slut. Then you’ll be all alone because you are a whore/skank/slut while all the people who used you are falling in love with people who respect their body and their minds.
To sum it all up, if you let people walk all over you then others will walk all over you too. No one wants to date a doormat. Not even the people walking on it.